Supporting children’s relationships with technologies

About this resource

This article explores how early childhood educators can use digital technologies to support peer-to-peer interactions between young children.

Age range for this resource

For educators, parents, and carers of children aged 3 to 5 years.

Goal of this resource

To foster positive relationships between young children.

To explore and build on young children’s interests.

How might educators use this resource?

Read this article to gain insight into several practices that can help children with peer-to-peer interactions when using digital technologies. Consider incorporating some of these practices into your own pedagogy at your service.

How might families use this resource?

Try out some of the valued practices identified by researchers and educators that help children with peer-to-peer interactions when using digital technologies. Maybe invite your child to take digital photographs of objects that interest them around your home. Next, invite your child to discuss why and how they took the photographs. Consider extending your child’s interest by helping them to use safe online search engines (e.g., Google Safe Search) to find out more information about their object of interest.

How might organisations use this resource?

Include a link to this article as part of your organisation’s regular communication to families. Invite families to read the article to learn more about the types of interactions that can support young children’s peer-to-peer interactions when using technologies.

What learning might we see?

Educators, parents, and carers using digital technologies to promote peer-to-peer interactions between young children.

Young children building positive relationships with their peers through shared use of digital technologies.

Practices

Viewing

Children view digital content with others for entertainment, information seeking, relaxation, physical activity, and/or recreation.

Using

Children use digital technologies to access and share information and to communicate with others.

Showing

Children show others how to use and engage with a variety of hardware and software.

Discussing

Children, their peers, and adults discuss, consider, and reflect on digital content and/or the use and application of technologies in context.

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Area

Relationships

Young children in digital contexts interact, engage, access, and learn how to use digital technologies in relationships with other people, including the adults (e.g. family members, parents, kinship members, educators) and peers (e.g. friends, siblings, extended family members) in their lives. These relationships facilitate and influence children’s engagement with digital technologies.

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Connection to relevant standards

Belonging, Being, and Becoming: The Early Years Learning Framework for Australia V2.0 (Australian Government Department of Education, 2022)
Outcome 1: Children have a strong sense of identity  

Children feel safe, secure, and supported (e.g., Children establish and maintain respectful, trusting relationships with other children and educators).

Children develop knowledgeable, confident self-identities, and a positive sense of self-worth (e.g., Children share with others how they have learned to use digital technologies).

Children learn to interact in relation to others with care, empathy, and respect (e.g., Children appreciate the need to take turns and wait so that others can have their turn; Children co-use and collaborate with others when using digital technologies; Educators facilitate sharing of equipment and turn-taking, being mindful of children’s differing capacities to wait).

Outcome 2: Children are connected with and contribute to their world

Children develop a sense of connectedness to groups and communities and an understanding of their reciprocal rights and responsibilities as active and informed citizens (e.g., Children cooperate with others and negotiate roles and relationships in play episodes and group experiences; Educators model language that children can use to express ideas, negotiate roles, and collaborate to achieve goals).

Children respond to diversity with respect (e.g., Children practise inclusive ways of being with others and achieving coexistence; Educators encourage children to listen to others and to respect diverse perspectives).

Outcome 3: Children have a strong sense of wellbeing 

Children become strong in their social, emotional, and mental wellbeing (e.g., Children increasingly cooperate and work collaboratively with others; Educators promote children’s sense of belonging, connectedness, and wellbeing).

Children are aware of and develop strategies to support their own mental and physical health and personal safety (e.g., Children are happy, healthy, safe, and connected to others).

Outcome 4: Children are confident and involved learners  

Children develop a growth mindset and learning dispositions such as curiosity, cooperation, confidence, creativity, commitment, enthusiasm, persistence, imagination, and reflexivity (e.g., Educators encourage children to engage in both individual and collaborative explorative learning processes; Educators create responsive learning environments that promote shared sustained thinking).

Children develop a range of skills and processes such as problem solving, enquiry, experimentation, hypothesising, researching, and investigating (e.g., Children explore their environment through asking questions, experimenting, investigating, and using digital technologies; Children use a range of strategies and digital tools to organise and represent mathematical and scientific thinking; Children use a range of media to express their ideas through the arts, e.g., clay, drawing, paint, digital technologies; Educators model the use of digital technologies and media to assist children to investigate and document their findings).

Children resource their own learning through connecting with people, place, technologies, and natural and processed materials (e.g., Children use digital technologies and media to investigate and problem solve; Children experiment with different technologies; Children experience the benefits and pleasures or shared learning explorations, investigations, and imaginary play scenarios; Educators provide opportunities and support for children to engage in meaningful relationships that provide positive learning opportunities; Educators think carefully about how children are grouped for play, considering possibilities for peer scaffolding).

Outcome 5: Children are effective communicators  

Children engage with a range of texts and gain meaning from these texts (e.g., Children engage in pretend play that draws on the use of digital technologies).

Children use digital technologies and media to access information, investigate ideas, and represent their thinking (e.g., Children engage with technologies and media for fun and social connection; Children adopt collaborative approaches in their learning about and with digital technologies; Children use digital technologies and media for creative expression, designing, drawing, composing; Children incorporate real or imaginary technologies as features of their play; Educators encourage collaborative learning about and through technologies between children, and children and educators).

National Quality Standard (Australian Children’s Education and Care Quality Authority, 2019)

Quality Area 1: Educational program and practice (e.g., Each child’s current knowledge, strengths, ideas, culture, abilities, and interests are the foundation of the program; Educators are deliberate, purposeful, and thoughtful in their decisions and actions; Educators respond to children’s ideas and play and extend children’s learning through open-ended questions, interactions, and feedback; Each child’s agency is promoted, enabling them to make choices and decisions that influence events and their world).

Quality Area 2: Children’s health and safety (e.g., Each child’s wellbeing and comfort is provided for, including appropriate opportunities to meet each child’s need for sleep, rest, and relaxation; At all times, reasonable precautions and adequate supervision ensure children are protected from harm and hazard).

Quality Area 3: Physical Environment (e.g., Resources, materials, and equipment allow for multiple uses, are sufficient in number, and enable every child to engage in play-based learning).

Quality Area 5: Relationships with children (e.g., Responsive and meaningful interactions build trusting relationships which engage and support each child to feel secure, confident, and included. Children are supported to collaborate, learn from, and help each other).

National Principles for Child Safe Organisations (Australian Human Rights Commission, 2018)

Principle 4: Equity is upheld and diverse needs respected in policy and practice.

Principle 5: People working with children and young people are suitable and supported to reflect child safety and wellbeing values in practice.

Principle 8: Physical and online environments promote safety and wellbeing while minimising the opportunity for children and young people to be harmed.

Explore more

If these ideas are new to you, explore these related resources:

Enjoying digital content with children

This video presentation explores how educators, parents, and carers can support young children’s play and learning by viewing digital content together.

Sharing screen time and digital technology with children and pre-teens

This article explores how parents and carers can use screen time and digital technologies to have fun, build trustful relationships, and learn new things with children and pre-teens.

For more ideas, explore these related resources:

Supporting your preschooler with online games

This video animation highlights the importance of parents and carers taking an active role in supporting young children to develop safe online habits.

Using digital technology with children: Tips

This Raising Children Network video presentation (2.17 minutes duration) provides tips for parents and carers about using digital technologies in meaningful ways with children.

If you would like to read some research, explore these related resources:

Grieshaber, S., Nuttall, J., & Edwards, S. (2021). Multimodal play: A threshold concept for early childhood curriculum? British Journal of Educational Technology, 52(6), 2118–2129. https://doi.org/10.1111/bjet.13127

Nolan, A., & Moore, D. (2024). Broadening the notion of peer-to-peer interactions when young children engage with digital technology. Early Childhood Education Journal. Advance online publication. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10643-024-01662-4

The Resources

Supporting children’s relationships with technologies

This Early Childhood Australia Every Child magazine article describes how Family Day Care educators used digital technologies to support peer-to-peer interactions between young children.

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