Cyberbullying
About this resource
This article supports parents and carers who may have concerns about their child’s social and emotional wellbeing with regards to cyberbullying. Cyberbullying happens when digital technologies are used to harass, embarrass, threaten, or pick on someone deliberately and repeatedly.
Age range for this resource
For parents, carers, and educators of children aged 3 to 12 years.
Goal of this resource
To build children’s understanding of using social media in responsible, respectful, meaningful, and safe ways.
To promote children’s knowledge of strategies that can help them identify, deal with, and/or prevent cyberbullying.
How might educators use this resource?
Share this article with colleagues. Use it as a conversation starter to brainstorm ways of introducing the idea of online safety and cyberbullying to children in your care. You could start by asking children what they already know about being online: Who do you know who uses the internet? What do people use the internet for? How do you use the internet at home? Who do you talk to online?
How might families use this resource?
Ask your child how they use the internet and what might be some agreed upon family expectations for staying safe online. It is never too early to start talking with your child about cyberbullying and online safety, especially if they have already started using social media or playing online games.
How might organisations use this resource?
Provide a link to this article in your newsletter or communications with families. Highlight how learning about online safety is a requirement of Belonging, Being, and Becoming: The Early Years Learning Framework for Australia V2.0 (Australian Government Department of Education, 2022) and Australian Curriculum V9.0 (Australian Curriculum, Assessment, and Reporting Authority, 2024). Prepare a short statement for sharing such as: ‘It is never too early to start talking with your child about cyberbullying and online safety, especially if they have already started using social media or playing online games.’
What learning might we see?
Parents and carers understanding how to recognise early signs of cyberbullying in their children and using strategies that support children to prevent and deal with cyberbullying.
Children becoming familiar with strategies to prevent and deal with cyberbullying.
Practices
Supervising
Children use internet-connected technologies with filters and passwords applied and always with active adult supervision.
Area
Citizenship
Citizenship in digital contexts recognises that young children are active participants in their communities now and into the future. As citizens, young children respect their own rights and those of other people, and develop an appreciation for cultural, racial, gender, and religious diversity. Digital rights, digital privacy, online safety, and cyber-safety education provide a foundation for early citizenship in digital contexts.
Connection to relevant standards
Belonging, Being, and Becoming: The Early Years Learning Framework for Australia V2.0 (Australian Government Department of Education, 2022)
Outcome 1: Children have a strong sense of identity
Children feel safe, secure, and supported (e.g., Children establish and maintain respectful, trusting relationships with other children and educators).
Children develop their emerging autonomy, inter-dependence, resilience, and agency (e.g., Educators provide children with strategies to make informed choices about their actions, interactions, and behaviours).
Children develop knowledgeable, confident self-identities and a positive sense of self-worth (e.g., Educators support children to identify and assess risks in play and learning and to cope with the unexpected).
Children learn to interact in relation to others with care, empathy, and respect (e.g., Children recognise safe and unsafe situations; Children identify trusted adults and friends; Educators support children to learn about and recognise safe and unsafe situations).
Outcome 2: Children are connected with and contribute to their world
Children develop a sense of connectedness to groups and communities and an understanding of their reciprocal rights and responsibilities as active and informed citizens (e.g., Educators provide opportunities for children to investigate ideas, complex concepts, and ethical issues that are relevant to their lives and their local communities).
Outcome 3: Children have a strong sense of wellbeing
Children become strong in their social, emotional, and mental wellbeing (e.g., Educators discuss and model appropriate use of digital technologies and discuss how to keep children safe online with children and families; Educators update their own learning of digital and cyber safety for children).
Children are aware of and develop strategies to support their own mental and physical health and personal safety (e.g., Educators learn about e-safety for children and embed and model safe digital practices).
Outcome 4: Children are confident and involved learners
Children resource their own learning through connecting with people, place, technologies, and natural and processed materials (e.g., Educators select and introduce appropriate tools, technologies, and media and provide the skills, knowledge, and techniques to enhance children’s learning; Educators develop their skills and knowledge with digital technologies and media in their curriculum to use them confidently with children).
Outcome 5: Children are effective communicators
Children engage with a range of texts and gain meaning from these texts (e.g., Children view and listen to printed, visual, and multimedia texts and respond with relevant gestures, actions, comments, and/or questions).
Children express ideas and make meaning using a range of media (e.g., Children view, listen and respond to simple printed, visual, and multimedia texts or music and express how it makes them feel).
Children use digital technologies and media to access information, investigate ideas, and represent their thinking (e.g., Educators teach children critical reflection skills and encourage them to evaluate the quality and trustworthiness of information sources; Educators have opportunities to develop their own knowledge and understanding of appropriate digital technology use and safety with children and families).
National Quality Standard (Australian Children’s Education and Care Quality Authority, 2019)
Quality Area 1: Educational program and practice (e.g., Educators are deliberate, purposeful, and thoughtful in their decisions and actions; Each child’s agency is promoted, enabling them to make choices and decisions that influence events and their world).
Quality Area 2: Children’s health and safety (e.g., Each child’s wellbeing and comfort is provided for, including appropriate opportunities to meet each child’s need for sleep, rest, and relaxation; At all times, reasonable precautions and adequate supervision ensure children are protected from harm and hazard).
Quality Area 5: Relationships with children (e.g., Responsive and meaningful interactions build trusting relationships which engage and support each child to feel secure, confident, and included; The dignity and rights of every child are maintained).
Quality Area 6: Collaborative partnerships with families and communities (e.g., Current information is available to families about the service and relevant community services and resources to support parenting and family wellbeing).
National Principles for Child Safe Organisations (Australian Human Rights Commission, 2018)
Principle 1: Child safety and wellbeing is embedded in organisational leadership, governance, and culture.
Principle 2: Children and young people are informed about their rights, participate in decisions affecting them, and are taken seriously.
Principle 3: Families and communities are informed and involved in promoting child safety and wellbeing.
Principle 5: People working with children and young people are suitable and supported to reflect child safety and wellbeing values in practice.
Principle 7: Staff and volunteers are equipped with the knowledge, skills, and awareness to keep children and young people safe through ongoing education and training.
Principle 8: Physical and online environments promote safety and wellbeing while minimising the opportunity for children and young people to be harmed.
Explore More
If these ideas are new to you, explore these related resources:
Navigating online bullying to create a safer digital experience
This Alannah and Madeline Foundation webpage provides information about cyberbullying, including how to spot the signs, and what to do if your child is doing the cyberbullying.
This Bullying No Way website provides resources and support for bullying intervention.
For more ideas, explore these related resources:
This video presentation invites parents, carers, and educators to think about the internet as a network of connected devices people use to share information and communicate with each other.
Swoosh, Glide, and Rule Number 5
This picture book helps educators, parents, and carers to discuss online safety behaviours with children.
If you would like to read some research, explore these related resources:
Edwards, S., Nolan, A., Henderson, M., Mantilla, A., Plowman, L., & Skouteris, H. (2018). Young children’s everyday concepts of the internet: A platform for cyber‐safety education in the early years. British Journal of Educational Technology, 49(1), 45–55. https://bera-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/bjet.12529
Ey, L., & Campbell, M. (2020). Do Australian parents of young children understand what bullying means? Children and Youth Services Review, 116, Article 105237. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0190740920308239